It starts to make your heart ache in the sixteenth chapter or so. The fact that John was so lonely and he has no one to turn to except for his autistic father who concealed himself in his own world was more saddening than the breaking up letter Savannah had written him.
I find myself blaming Savannah for her betrayal to John, though I know there must be a reason. But as heartbreaking as it was, I didn't put the book down, instead, I clinging to the plot even much tighter, hoping to find John in a better situation.
Just as the commentator at the bestseller website has pointed out, 'Dear John' is for anyone who liked 'A Walk to Remember' or other of Nicolas Sparks sappy romantics. In fact, he is a master in combining the sweetness and bitterness in an innocent love story.
Nicolas knows how a subtle act in love can soften the hearts of the readers, most of whom, I guess, are girls and women. A light touch of hands, the first kiss, the simple quiet moment when two people leaning against each other while watching the sun set. All the details of affection are what most people want to receive or retrieve.
In 'Dear John', the protagonist's father, was autistic, as was the author's son Ryan, the heroine, loves horses, as did the author's mother, so the theory is true about you can always detect bits and pieces of the author's personal life in his novel.
I am not finishing the book yet, but I already see the end. The lonely soldier lost his love of life but they will remain be in each other's memory forever. This is what first love would usually turned out like, but in John's case, it tastes much much more agonized. I tends to avoid all the political backdrop of the 9/11 attack and the Iraqi War, although they are the irreversible force that turned the romance into a tragedy.
Perhaps most author believes that compared to happy-endings, tragedy would be more easily remembered by readers as somehow pain last longer than happiness. But personally speaking, I would rather feel relived than wounded from reading a novel.
Dear John
《Dear John》热门书评
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Dear John
6有用 1无用 yz 2010-03-12
I have to say it is my first time to have read an English novel within just two days. I have searched it in the library and luckily I found it then I ...
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比电影好多了
4有用 0无用 阿宁 2010-12-14
因为看了电影所以去看这本书的。细节描写非常好,很惊诧男主角John的心思也有这么细腻。书中Savannah给John写分手信的理由和电影中还是不太一样的,令人无奈。有时候我们想一想,是否就差那么一点点等待,你就能等到你梦寐以求的东西了呢?耐心会被孤独冲去,但带来的却是一生的遗憾。...
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最让人感动的其实是john和他的父亲
3有用 0无用 淡酒 2010-06-28
虽然爱情才是dear john的主线,但是里面最触动人心的确是John和John的父亲从陌生到和解的过程。savannah告诉John他的父亲有精神疾病的时候让我无端地想起了《Mary and Max》,那里面Mary给Max她写的治疗Max疾病书的反应。一样的震惊,一样的不能接受。但是savann...
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他的一贯风格
1有用 0无用 hamester 2009-03-28
很喜欢他早期的作品。NICHOLAS SPARKS 的道德观念 和价值观念在他的小说里都得到很好的体现,南方对于宗教的虔诚,对于纯洁爱情得向往和等待,对于自然得喜爱,和对于某种固定生活方式得忠诚。这本书跟他前面的作品表现的风格一致,没有什么突破,尤其是前半部分。当...
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思想道德教育范本
1有用 0无用 湖上辣客 2011-03-28
大家真的都是好人啊。你帮助我,我帮助你。我保卫我国家,你守住你老公。你帮我爸爸,我给你捐款。经典的思想道德范本。我只是一开始有点世俗,我有点黑暗,所以我觉得有点不敢相信——真的?好吧,作为一名妇女读者,最让我心碎的,是她已经嫁给tim之后,他回去找到了她,他只是看看她,然后离开了,她追了出去,他没有...
书名: Dear John
作者: Nicholas Sparks
出版社: Warner Books
出版年: 2006-10-30
页数: 288
定价: USD 24.99
装帧: Hardcover
ISBN: 9780446528054
